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Without Ram, India wouldn’t be India



“ Where you are from? Do people there also know about Ram?” Some boys had discovered me sitting at the back of a shrine at the outskirts of Chamba and typically for Indian kids, who are never shy, had asked this question. “No, where I am from people don’t know about Ram,” I replied. They looked disappointed. Only then I realised that the crackling of loudspeakers that I heard from a village down the hill, was in preparation for the Ramlila. That incident happened in September 1985. A year later, I attended the grand Ramleela in Varanasi over 30 evenings and wrote about it for a German magazine to let some Germans also know about Ram. I reproduce the article here in English, since it is a very special day for Indians today. Their beloved Ram will finally get his palace back. For too long he was housed in a tiny, temporary tent. Here is my article: Ram, the prince of Ayodhya, lived many thousand years ago. Yet, even today most people in India know in detail his eventful life story, which is recounted in the Ramayana. Not only in India – in Nepal, Myanmar, Laos, Thailand and Indonesia, too, Ram had great influence on art and literature. An international Ramayana festival last year in Bangkok made clear how alive Ram is even today and what great importance the Ramayana has in Southeast Asia. ‘If Asia has an epic in common, it is the Ramayana,’ was declared in Bangkok. In the land of its origin, however, the Ramayana is more than a grand epic. It is a sacred scripture that contains all what one needs to know to live a dignified life and to conduct oneself in an ideal way in the different relationships. Ram is not only an exemplary human being, but an avatar, a conscious embodiment of the divine principle that comes down to earth whenever the bad is gaining the upper hand, and humanity strays from the dharmic path. Valmiki, supposedly a contemporary of Ram, narrates in 24,000 Sanskrit shlokas vividly the life story of the prince, who later becomes the king of Ayodhya. In the 17th century, Tulsidas wrote the story of Ram in colloquial Hindi and made it even more popular. Ram is an ideal, an outstanding example for others – noble, just, brave, ever protecting the weak, and doing the right thing at the right time. He is ready rather to die than to break his word and prepared to wage a war to rescue his wife Sita who had been kidnapped by a demon king. Sita, the princess who marries Ram, possesses all the virtues, which a woman is supposed to have according to the ancient rishis. She is modest, chaste, always intent on the wellbeing of her husband, warm hearted, full of trust in god, considerate, graceful – and exquisitely beautiful. Feminist groups, which also exist in India, are likely to find fault with Sita, yet the majority of Hindu women do not care. They revere Sita as their ideal even today. For Ram to be a model for others, he has to have a difficult life. And he indeed faces countless, unexpected complications and hardship. For example, on the very day, when the handsome, much loved prince is to ascend the throne, his father Dasaratha, caused by an intrigue in the palace, has to send him into exile for 14 long years. It breaks his father’s heart. Ram calmly takes off the festive robes and dresses in a simple gown. Sita and his brother Lakshman insist on joining him. And so the three of them finally walk out of the town into the forest – and the whole of Ayodhya weeps. To my very western question when this happened, I always got the same answer: “Many thousand years ago for sure. But the exact date is not important. Important is, to let Ram come alive in your inner vision and learn from him for your own life.” This ‘present’ view or attitude has no doubt a valid point and is probably the reason why Indians do not get tired to listen again and again to Ram’s story or to watch it in village plays. In Varanasi, I met a man who had attended the Ramlila there 35 times. Each year he followed Ram with devotion and attention for 30 nights. The Ramlila in Varanasi is staged in Ramnagar on the other side of the Ganga, under the patronage of the Maharaja, with great pomp, yet very traditionally. There were no loudspeakers in spite of thousands of spectators and people were not allowed to take photos with a flash. The lila culminates on Deepavali, when Ram returns to Ayodhya after his exile and takes over as king. Every evening before the play, pooja is performed for the actors and thereafter they are considered to be true embodiments of their roles. Many people touched respectfully the feet of the 12- year old boy who played Ram, when there was an occasion during breaks. The actors were right in the midst of the crowd. There was a festive atmosphere with food carts and stalls selling trinkets. When Ram went into exile, several thousand spectators walked with him around two kilometres to the place, where the next episode would unfold. An amazing experience in itself. The Maharaja moved high up on a fabulously decorated elephant through the crowd. The Yuvaraj was sitting on another elephant, which was also splendidly decorated. I have particularly fond memories of the journeys back across the Ganga in the middle of the night after the play. Mainly men crossed over to the town on countless, crowded boats in the stillness of the night – once it was even 4 o’clock in the morning. They narrated excitedly to each other, how admirably Ram had conducted himself today and how exemplarily Sita had reacted –as if it had just really happened and they had had the good fortune of having been present. When the talking occasionally stopped, they started singing “Siya Ram, Jai Siya Ram” – everyone in his own tune and rhythm. Towards the end of the boat ride, when we were gliding past a Shiva temple on the ghats of Varanasi, they interrupted their “Siya Ram” for a moment and full throatily shouted a salutation to Shiva: “Hara Hara Mahadev!” After the Ramlila, I went to Ayodhya, the birthplace of Ram. It was a quiet town, back then in 1986. In the evenings, soulful Ram bhajans could be heard from most houses. I visited the palace of Kaikeyi, the younger wife of his father, who was responsible for his exile, and also the Hanuman Mandir, but strangely, the place where Ram was born and worshipped by pilgrims, was a tiny tent next to a big mosque, which however was not in use. I knew nothing about history at that time, didn’t know that a grand Ram mandir stood there which was destroyed by Babur who built a mosque in its place. Naturally, the Hindus were greatly pained at this development and tried already under British rule to get the place back and build again a temple for Ram. They had to wait for a very long time – till 9 November, 2019, when the Supreme Court cleared the way for a new, magnificent Ram Mandir, which is likely to draw many pilgrims to Ayodhya. Justice has finally been done.